More Birth Mother Information
Why Choose Adoption Insight?
Our services are extensive to you as a Birth Mother/Parent. We are here 7 days a
week 24 hours a day to answer any questions that you may have. We have
assisted birth families in finding adoptive families for their children since 2000.
We care about you and your child. We provide free, ongoing guidance, without
judgment. You may want to speak to a licensed counselor to help with your
decision and to sort out feelings you may have. We have outside counselors we
can refer you to in your area. You may be eligible for legally allowable expenses
to be paid if needed while you are pregnant also. Assistance helping you set
future goals. Regardless of your decision to parent or choose adoption, you'll
receive personal, compassionate attention. We are here for you, to listen, care
and support you in a friendly, nurturing way. Adoption Insight can also refer you
to qualified and sensitive physicians, childbirth educators, housing and public
assistance, all at no charge.
Are There Any Costs to Me the Birth Parent?
There is no cost to you as a birth parent. Adoptive parents pay for legal fees,
reasonable pregnancy-related expenses, medical bills not covered by insurance,
consulting and counseling fees.
Why Choose Adoption?
Most women come to Adoption Insight because they love their child and realize
that they are not ready to be the kind of parent they need to be at this time in
their life. Others realize that there are unique reasons in their life that are
preventing them from being able to parent their child. Each reason is valid and
Adoption Insight understands that you love your child and only want the best
for your unborn child. We realize that choosing adoption for your child can be a
very difficult decision. We want to help you explore parenting and adoption
and let you determine what is right for you both at this time in your life. It takes
courage and strength to be able to make this important decision.
Is it Selfish to Consider Adoption?
Adoption can be one of the most loving decisions you make for your child. It
takes a great deal of love and maturity to know that raising a child can be
difficult and love is not enough to provide what a child needs to thrive and
grow. Even with the help of families and friends, the task can be overwhelming
for many people. Often family and friends are there at the beginning, then when
times get more difficult you are on your own. What ever your decision is, you
are ultimately going to be the primary caregiver and the person that will need
to take care of your child. This can be a sacrifice for many years to come, some
women are ready for years to come. Many women realize the time is not right
for them to parent and that adoption is the most sensible and most important
decision they will make for their child and their future.
How are Adoptive Families Screened?
Adoption Insight screens all adoptive families that are associated with us. A
licensed social worker will conduct a thorough home study evaluation and visit
the adoptive family’s home in their state. This includes a background check,
medical evaluations, financial and FBI screening as well as a child abuse index
screen. You can be assured that your baby will be raised within a loving and safe
family environment. Adoption Insight doesn't accept all adoptive parents that
apply to our program. You also will be able to speak personally to families to
determine whom you feel you want to adopt and raise your child.
Is Open Adoption safe and Legal?
Yes, open adoption is both safe and legal. Your adoption can be completed as an
independent adoption or a designated agency adoption. All adoption laws are
adhered to, allowing you peace of mind that your adoption is safe, legal and
ethical. An attorney in your state will be provided in advance at no cost to you,
should you have additional questions. A qualified adoption attorney and or a
social worker conduct all legal work. Adoption Insight has completed several
successful adoptions and is here to insure that your rights are protected, by
providing safe and successful adoptions.
What is Open or Semi Open Adoption?
In open adoption, the birth parent may choose the adoptive family themselves,
rather than having an agency chose the family for them. Adoption Insight
provides a wide selection of loving families waiting to adopt. Birth parents may
decide on the amount of contact they wish to have. Some women want letters
and photos, others want visits or phone calls after the adoption and some want
no contact at all. The choice is up to you the birth parent and the adoptive
family .You may choose the family that best meets your needs and those of your
child or we will select a family for you if you prefer. You and the adoptive
parents have a variety of options.
What if I go into Labor, can you work with me from the Hospital?
Yes, we often receive calls from the hospital. We can have a family available for
you within hours. In most states, the adoptive family will be able to take the
baby home from the hospital, avoiding foster care. We have found that most
birth mothers want to be sure that their baby can start bonding with their
adoptive family right away. We are open for emergencies on all weekends,
holidays and through the night. We have families that can travel within a few
hours nationwide.
Can I select a family from a state other than my own?
Yes. This is both legal and workable and the Internet allows us access to a large
variety of qualified waiting families that will meet your specifications
nationwide or if you prefer to choose a family in your state, we have families in
most states or can locate and screen available families in your state.
Some of my friends say I should keep my baby and that children
belong with their birth parents, what should I do?
You will need to consider honestly where you are in your life now and if you
are ready for parenting at this time. This doesn’t mean you are bad. Perhaps you
know you are not at a time and place in your life to be parenting. It is easy for
friends to make comments when they have not been in your position. The only
person that can make this decision is you. You want to consider honestly your
options of parenting and adoption before the baby is born. We have other birth
mothers you can speak with if you would like to find out how they handled
their pregnancy. Just ask us. We are here to help.
What is my child had a disability or, medical problem. Do you have
Adoptive Families Available?
Yes. We have families that have shown interest in special needs babies and older
children. Just call us and we can give you details of what we will need to get
started. There is a home for every child with Adoption Insight
Do you have Birth Mother Housing?
We can help you find housing and at times we have families that are interested
in housing a birth mother for the term of her pregnancy. If you are in this
situation, it is best to call us as soon as you can at 1-800-361-9333 to determine
what your needs are and to assist you quickly. Some women want to move to
another area until after the baby is born and others want to stay in their own
town. Much will be determined by how far along you are in your pregnancy
and what your situation and wishes are.
What's the Next Step?
You can start by calling us at 1-800-361-9333, seven days a week for more
information. Review the family profiles on line and select three families you feel
you might want to speak to. We will be able to give you more details about the
families and arrange for you to call them. All of our adoptive couples have toll
free numbers allowing you to call them without charge. You might find one
family that just stands out and you only want to speak to them. The choice is
yours. Some of our families may be unavailable pending a match, so we
encourage you to have a few selected.
ADOPTION INSIGHT
Birth Mother Hotline: (800)361-9333
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